no feeling or pretend to have no feeling

whatever you say, do, i attempt to feel 'this is nothing much'. my way to overcome "terasa hati". well, AM I or am i opposite of it??
try my best to be good and leave to Allah in evaluating my intention. and, of course need suggestion and opinion from you guys in correcting and improving myself.

there are certain actions and words caused pain but am i qualified to judge people?
NO! alaisallahu biah kamil haakimiin (AT-Tin:8). bukankah Allah hakim yg paling adil? He questions us. who am I to against this?? never ever!

it may be a mirror of me, of my behaviour. so, cannot too "terasa hati". pray the best for a particular person. for instance, may Allah bless you and always in Allah's guidance. and of course, learn to improve from such an attitude.

if it is obvious? if they're really not supposed to say or they really act in an unacceptable manner??
MAY Allah bless you and always in Allah's guidance. even I'm not perfect. cannot compare too much. must always be humble, I'm not that good but can try to give suggestion in improving in order to create a better UMMAH. soft skill is very very important, cannot be too harsh. work on it OK!! this is one of the USRAH's RUKUN: TAFAHUM. should practice this. insya ALLAH.

insya Allah, there will no situation of blaming and dissatisfaction.

Insya Allah.
Wallahualam.